Divorce Does NOT Have to Damage Your Child or Your Relationship
Lead Your Child, Protect the Bond, and Stay in Control—Even When Everything Feels Like It’s Falling Apart
Move from chaos and confusion to confidence and clarity with a step-by-step system designed to help you say the right thing at the right time—and prevent long-term emotional damage during and after divorce.
Learn what your child really needs to hear right now, how to avoid devastating mistakes, and how to be the stable anchor they need, even when they’re being influenced by the other parent.
You’ll learn directly from someone who lived it—Ryan Thomas, a child of divorce who rejected his parent for decades and now helps parents in over 25 countries save their relationship with their child. You’ll also be guided by Jen, your Emotion & Mindset Coach, who will help you stay grounded, rebuild your confidence, and become the parent your child needs—regardless of how hard it feels right now.
Be the Difference Maker Your Child Needs
If you're ready to take action, here's what's possible for you:
🚀 A personalized roadmap based on your child’s unique situation—so you always know your next step.
🚀 The right words and actions to navigate tough moments with calm and confidence.
🚀 Real tools and ongoing support to keep you grounded, focused, and moving forward.
🚀 Renewed strength and clarity to lead your family, protect the bond, and prevent long-term damage.
If you’re ready to stop reacting—and start leading—this program was built for you.
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Break the Cycle of Conflict: Learn how to lead your child through the chaos of divorce without passing down pain, blame, or emotional baggage that can last for years.
Say the Right Thing, Even Under Pressure: Discover exactly what to say when emotions run high—so you avoid damaging phrases and instead create moments of trust and healing.
Protect Your Bond, Even When You're Not Around: Learn how to stay present and emotionally connected—even if the other parent is undermining you behind the scenes.
Lead with Calm Confidence: Become the steady anchor your child needs during and after divorce, without reacting to provocation or being pulled into emotional traps.
Turn Difficult Conversations Into Healing Moments: Gain simple but powerful tools to address the tough stuff—like why you left, what happened, or who’s to blame—in a way that makes your child feel safe and heard.
Rebuild Trust From the Ground Up: Whether your child is distant or confused, you’ll know how to rebuild connection step-by-step, even if they’ve been told lies or pushed away from you.
Make It Easy for Your Child to Love You Freely: Use the exact language that releases your child from guilt, confusion, or loyalty binds—so they can reconnect with you on their terms.
Reframe the Story Without Blame: Learn how to help your child write a new version of your family’s story—one that honors truth, protects their heart, and gives them permission to heal.
Stop the Emotional Spiral: No more walking on eggshells or reliving painful moments. You’ll have the tools to lead, repair, and move forward with strength.
Find Peace in Your Role as a Parent: Let go of guilt, confusion, and fear—and replace it with clarity, confidence, and a powerful sense of purpose.
Support and Guidance on...
✅ Staying Calm and Strategic — How to avoid the emotional traps that push your child further away.
✅ The Right Words at the Right Time — Communication that heals instead of harms, even when your child is angry or shut down.
✅ Protecting Your Role as a Parent — How to guide your child’s thinking without force or pressure, and prevent one parent from becoming the villain.
✅ Breaking Out of Destructive Cycles — Stop repeating the same conversations and power struggles that go nowhere.
✅ Navigating Resistance and Rejection — How to stay emotionally close when your child is being distant, hurtful, or completely disconnected.
✅ Resetting the Story Your Child Is Telling Themselves — How to write the version of the divorce they’ll carry with them for life—without blame or guilt.
Real-Life Experience Â
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I lived through the most extreme version of what it can do to a child.
And after decades apart, I finally saw the truth… and reconnected.
That’s why I know exactly what helps—and what hurts.
You Get Access To:
6 Weeks
of Step-by-Step Video Lessons to connect with your child.
6 Weeks
of Weekly Mindset & Emotion video training to help you heal from the pain and turmoil.
15+
Customizable Scripts and tactics on what to say and do, even if you're blocked or ignored.
25+ Hours
of Video Training to help you guide your child every step of the way.
5 Months
of Long-Term Support with  On-Demand "Momentum Sessions"
4Â Weeks
of Bonus Trainings to Keep Your Progress Going.
Your Core Program Includes:
6 Step-by-Step Modules
Learn directly from someone who has already lived what your child is feeling. These modules give you practical strategies, a proven roadmap to shift the dynamic, rebuild the bond, and change the way your child sees you - without pushing, pleading, or over explaining. Each module tackles a key part of the parent-child dynamic with real-life examples and actionable steps you can start using immediately. (Lifetime access included.)
Communication Training
Discover the exact words that will break through emotional walls, make your child feel safe, grounded, and trusting of you. Whether you're child is angry and yelling or silent and shut down, you'll know what to say. Includes ready-to-use scripts, templates, and outlines you can customize to fit your situation.
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Emotional Mastery TrainingÂ
In addition to Ryan’s coaching, you’ll receive expert emotional support from Jen, our dedicated mindset and emotion coach. Jen’s training helps you overcome stress, fear, and self-doubt so you can approach every interaction with confidence. She’ll guide you through the turmoil and upheaval of your life, helping you regain control of your emotions and stay strong when it matters most.
Scripts, Templates, Messages
Message Library, Scripts and Templates with word-for-word examples, customizable scripts, and plug-and-play messages tailored to your situation — so you’re never stuck on what to say.
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Long-Term Support: 5 Monthly On-Demand Momentum Sessions
Stay supported after the core program with 5 monthly on-demand Momentum Sessions from Ryan and Jen. These sessions provide fresh insights, advanced strategies, and emotional guidance to help you maintain progress, stay motivated, and navigate new challenges as they arise—so you’re never left wondering, “What now?
Your Stability Vault
Quick-access to powerful tools designed to help you stay grounded, focused, and confident in real time.
Included in The Stability Vault:
âś… 10-Minute Daily Mindset Routine (AUDIO)
âś… Meditation Library for Parents (AUDIO)
âś… Build Endless Energy to Keep Going (VIDEO)
âś… Healing & Confidence Building Toolkit (VIDEO LIBRARY)
[BONUS] DND: THRIVE – 4 Weeks of Additional Training
After completing the 6-week core program, continue your growth with 4 weeks of additional training. DND:THRIVE helps you continue your progress and apply advanced strategies as your relationship improves.
[BONUS]Â Re-Engagement Protocol Library
Rapid-response and reset strategies to use IF you child goes dark or is turned against you, this library gives you the exact steps to reopen communication and rebuild connection.
[BONUS] 11 Conversations to Reinvent Your Life
Reinvent your life and break out of the patterns and ruts you've been stuck in. These 11 conversations will put you back in the driver's seat of getting what YOU want and need in life. Shed the weight of people and situations that no longer fit in your life, and attract new relationships that nourish you on your terms.
[BONUS] 10 Irresistible Questions to Unlock Your Child
These 10 carefully crafted prompts are designed to disarm defensiveness, spark meaningful connection, and help your child reveal what they’re really thinking and feeling. You'll learn how to ask in a way that feels safe, supported, and impossible to ignore—even if your child normally shuts down.
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Lifetime Access
You get Lifetime Access to the training content in the program. So you can go at your own pace and revisit the training anytime you want, 24/7 for life. So, you're not just investing in a solution for now—you're securing a resource for the future challenges you might face.
Summary of Everything You Will Receive:
 - 10 Weeks + 2 CoachesÂ
- 6 Weeks of Step-by-Step Video Communication & Strategy Training from Ryan
- 6 Weeks of Emotional Mastery Video Training from Jen
- Scripts, Templates, Messages
- Momentum Sessions w/Ryan & Jen (5 Months On-Demand Sessions)
- Stability Vault
-[BONUS]Â DND: THRIVE - 4 Weeks of Additional Training
-[BONUS]Â Re-Engagement Protocol Library
-[BONUS] 11 Conversations to Reinvent your Life
-[BONUS]Â 10 Irresistible Questions to Unlock Your Child
- 24/7 Lifetime Access
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About Founder Ryan ThomasÂ
Ryan is an expert in helping parents reconnect with their children, having worked with parents, families, and professionals in over 25 countries. He shows parents exactly what to say and do to rebuild their relationships and get their children back.
With over two decades of experience in communication, conflict resolution, and crisis management, Ryan is also trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), solutions-based counseling, and resiliency coaching. His “secret weapon” is the unique ability to get inside the mind of a child who rejects a parent, predicting exactly what that child needs to hear to open the door to reconnection.
This insight comes from Ryan’s own real-life experience—having rejected a parent for over 20 years, he now uses that personal journey to give parents a rare, behind-the-scenes perspective on how to heal and rebuild relationships.
Ryan’s work has been featured in US News & World Report, Entrepreneur Magazine, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, iHeart Radio and more. He has worked with influential leaders and globally recognized brands, including First Lady Michelle Obama, The White House, Academy Award-winning actor Martin Sheen, Matthew Perry, Lockheed Martin, Best Buy Mobile, American Heart Association, and the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
He is the founder of the “Get Them Back” and "Divorce NOT Damage" coaching programs and the author of the acclaimed book, SABOTAGED! The Weapons of Parental Alienation.
About Emotion Coach JenÂ
Jen is a performance and mindset coach, best-selling author, and speaker who has worked with executives, Olympians, and high performers across 7 countries. She’s been featured on CBS, CW, TalentCulture, Project Happiness, FierceCEO, and iHeartRadio, and has helped individuals from Microsoft, the NFL, the Lady Gaga Tour, Broadway Performers, The Kennedy Center, and National Geographic.
Jen is the founder of the Life Beyond Hurt Program and brings over 20 years of expertise in mind-body wellness, psychology, neurology, and health. She holds a Doctor of Chiropractic degree and a Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology from the University of Wisconsin.
Her academic background includes serving as a Research Fellow in Motivational Psychology, specializing in intrinsic motivation and high performance. She has also completed post-doctorate training in Modern Applied Psychology, Positive Psychology Coaching, Resilience Practice, NLP Master Practitioner, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
As a multi-time best-selling author, Jen’s books have earned recognition in Organizational Change and Sports Coaching, as well as #1 New Releases in Stress Management, Mid-Life Management, and Personal Success.
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Their stories reflect their individual journeys. Results are not guaranteed.
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