A private, on-demand strategy library for alienated parents
Built for real-time decisions when every move matters
When everything feels turned against you and you don’t know what to say or do next — start here..
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You don’t need more theory.
You need the right move, at the right moment, that doesn’t make things worse.
 If any of these are you…
You don’t know whether to reach out or stay quiet
Every message somehow becomes proof against you
One wrong sentence could make everything worse
Your child is repeating false talking points
You’re being painted as unsafe, unstable, or selfish
You can’t tell if silence is helping or hurting
Your gifts, messages, and presence aren't wanted
Your child knows things about court they shouldn't
Your child is being told lies about you
You don't trust your own instincts anymore
This library was built for you.
Private, On-Demand Support Library
Instant access to every series below - designed for the exact moments you’re living through.
What this gives you in real life:Â
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Know your next move — and what to stop doing
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Send messages that don’t escalate or create new problems
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Recognize when something actually is working, even if it’s subtle
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Stop spiraling and operate from calm, steady control
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Handle smear narratives without sounding defensive or desperate
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How It Works
1) Join in under 30 seconds
Choose your payment option and get instant access. No calls. No applications. No explaining your story.
2) Open the library immediately
Access 21 on-demand video series with 100+ focused videos — built around real-life moments.
3) Start exactly where you are
Watch in sequence or jump straight to the series that matches your situation right now.Â
4) Lifetime, 24/7 access
Return anytime - nothing expires. New monthly series added over the next 6 months.
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Why This Library Exists
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Ryan Thomas didn’t just study this.
He lived it.
As an alienated child, he was pulled into rejection, fear, and loyalty conflict — and pushed away from a parent he later realized was never the enemy.
Unalienated exists because Ryan knows exactly:
- what alienated children are afraid of
- what they believe
- and what actually gets through
This library is built around the inside of that experience — not theory.
Meet Your Guides
Ryan Thomas
STRATEGY & COMMUNICATION
Ryan is a communication and reconnection strategist who has helped parents, families, and professionals in over 25 countries navigate high-conflict separation, parental alienation, and child rejection for more than a decade.
With over 20 years of experience in communication, conflict resolution, and crisis management, Ryan specializes in showing parents exactly what to say and do when every interaction feels emotionally loaded, risky, and easily misunderstood.
He is the author of Sabotaged! The Hidden Weapons of Parental Alienation and Confessions of an Alienated Child, two books that reveal both the mechanics of parental alienation and what it feels like from inside a child’s mind.
Ryan’s work has been featured by U.S. News & World Report, Entrepreneur, ABC, MSNBC, FOX, and iHeartRadio. He has worked with influential leaders and organizations including First Lady Michelle Obama, The White House, Academy Award-winning actor Martin Sheen, Matthew Perry, Lockheed Martin, Best Buy Mobile, the American Heart Association, and the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
What makes Ryan’s work different is that it isn’t theoretical.
He spent more than two decades rejecting a parent himself before reconnecting in his late twenties. That lived experience gives him a rare, inside-the-mind understanding of what alienated children believe, what they fear, and what actually reaches them.
Jen Ahana
EMOTION & MINDSET
Jen is a performance and mindset coach and 3Ă— author with over 20 years of experience helping individuals maintain clarity, resilience, and performance during high-pressure moments and major life transitions.
She has worked with executives, Olympians, and high performers across seven countries, and her work has been featured on CBS, CW, TalentCulture, Project Happiness, FierceCEO, and iHeartRadio.
Jen has supported individuals and organizations including Microsoft, the NFL, the Lady Gaga Tour, Broadway performers, The Kennedy Center, and National Geographic.
As the founder of Life Beyond Hurt, she brings a grounded, mind-body approach to emotional regulation, clarity, and sustainable performance during times of stress and transition.
Choose Your Access
One-Time Payment of
$1,497
Best value. No future payments.
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INSTANT ACCESS To:
âś” 21+ private support series
âś” 100+ strategy and communication videos
âś” Scripts for text, email, and high-risk moments
âś” New series added over the next 6 months
✔ LIFETIME access to everything inside Unalienated
(2) Payments of
$897
Same full access. Split over time.
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INSTANT ACCESS To:
âś” 21+ private support series
âś” 100+ strategy and communication videos
âś” Scripts for text, email, and high-risk moments
✔New series added over the next 6 months.
✔ LIFETIME access to everything inside Unalienated
Parents Sharing Their Experiences
Unalienated provides education, communication strategies, and emotional support tools. It does not promise or guarantee reconciliation, legal outcomes, or specific relationship changes.
DISCLAIMER: All products and services by our company are for educational and informational purposes only. Your level of success in attaining any stated ideas or strategies in our programs or on our websites may be dependent upon a number of factors including your ability, access, knowledge, dedication, goals, and limitations including the in-ability to control others behavior to name a few. Because these factors differ according to individuals, we cannot guarantee your success or results in any area of life or any endeavor. As stipulated by law, we make no guarantees that you will achieve any specific results from our information, programs or services and we offer no licensed or professional psychological, medical, legal, therapeutic, tax, or financial advice in this program. The information contained herein cannot replace or substitute for the services of trained professionals in any field, including, but not limited to, medical, psychological, financial or legal matters. You alone are responsible and accountable for your decisions, actions and results in life, and by your registration here today and use of our programs or websites at any time, you agree not to attempt to hold us liable for any such decisions, actions or results, at any time, under any circumstance. As with any effort, there are risks that you may not make progress or achieve a desired outcome. We are simply trying to help you in every possible way build stronger relationships, live a happier life, and be a positive force in this world. There are NO refunds. If you ever need anything from us, just reply to any of our emails. We value, appreciate and respect your time and dedication to getting closer to reconnecting with your child. You also agree to our terms, conditions and privacy listed on the bottom of this page. By purchasing this program from us, you agree that we can contact you in the future, use your data/information to deliver our services or related content, ask your about your experience, or offer help to improve your situation. We are here for you anytime at [email protected]Â Â All of our terms, privacy policies and disclaimers for this program and website can be accessed via the links below. It's pretty straight-forward - you're not guaranteed to get any results easily or at all, you are responsible for your results -- but we love transparency, which is why we share everything about our programs so you can make the best decision possible.Â
